More background information on how my stepson’s mother behaves and how she treats him and others. She wants him to make his own decisions as long as they align with what she wants. The kid is 30 years old now, and she still treats him like this! Plus, she wants to rewrite history and pretend this incident from 2012 never happened, but here it is. A post I wrote IN 2012 detailing the events. I am so glad I felt like writing back then and tried to note events as they happened. I need to get back to that.
I talk to people about her behavior now and they ask the same question, “What is wrong with her!?” and “What is her problem?” I have my ideas, but it is still difficult to understand. After all this time, this 50 something year old woman still behaves like a toddler who can’t have their way.
On top of it all, she had the nerve to tell my stepson that I traumatized her. I’d like to know how I did that. Of course, she never has the balls to actually talk to me, or write to me, or anything. She answers for nothing. She spouts off a bunch of untruths or half-truths in order to make herself look good but answers to nobody for her shitty behavior. How did I traumatize you Sue? How? By writing a blog? You don’t have to read it. By sending you a few emails? You didn’t really have to read those either. You are just lucky that I have never directly confronted you. My own counselor laughs at your accusations of being traumatized by me. She said, “You could have went really ghetto on her. With all she has done, she’s lucky you didn’t punch her in the nose.” That’s damn right! I never threatened Sue, though she certainly threatened my husband; not with violence but in other ways, and she used their son as a pawn in her game. Those are the real trauma victims: my husband and his son. I guess by writing about those times, I traumatized her. Bitch, it’s your own behavior that traumatizes and continues to traumatize. It is hurting the grandkids! This is what I never wanted, as Sue should well remember.
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