Being a stepmom…

While on the topic of step-mothering/step-parenting here is a quote from StepMom Magazine’s facebook that I love:

“Being a stepmom is not easy. Many of you care for others while receiving little thanks, acknowledgment or love in return. Giving without expectations or guarantees is a selfless and generous act. Hold your head high everyday in spite of the obstacles and criticism you face and remember that doing the right thing, is always the right thing to do. Never forget to love and value yourself in the process. You are beautiful and strong and we appreciate and admire all that you do.”

StepMom Magazine

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Published in: on February 19, 2011 at 8:24 am  Leave a Comment  

Oh happy morning…

I awoke from a nightmare this morning – my bio-psych teacher had given a test and I thought I had done really well on it but when I got my score it was something like a D. She only showed us our score and refused to show us what we got wrong/the correct answers. I was really mad about this and especially hurt about her unfairness.

Hahahaha, I am too preoccupied with school.

Normally I would not be up at the crack of dawn but I had to get up this morning because I ached terribly and had to blow my nose/clear my throat. UGH, I am catching a cold. I got on facebook to cheer me up. I belong to a few stepmother groups on there and from time to time they ask questions about stepmom/stepfamily experiences. This morning the question is, “What’s the funniest thing your Stepkids have ever done/said?” Really there are too many to mention but here are two things that stick in my memory:

When my stepson was little he used to sit on my lap and ‘drive’ as I pulled into our driveway. Once I moved the seat up or something and he got squished a little. I made sure he was alright and said sorry and he said “Them were my nuts!” LOL

Once we were bike riding in a hilly area (Mackinac Island, my favorite). My stepson would go down a hill really fast and break. He got up ahead of me and went down a hill and around a curve (his dad was with him). As I caught up, he yells out to me “Hey Jackie look at my skidmarks!” I almost fell off my bike laughing and shouted back to him, “I’ve seen enough of those in your dirty laundry!” LOL

So those memories cheered me up immensely. That is a lovely way to have a happy morning.

Another stepmother’s story cracked me up. She said her stepdaughter said she hope her nose is not like her mother’s, all puffy – “it was too big and not pretty”. To top it off the little girl went on to say she hopes her arms turn out like her father’s because the are less hairy! Bwahaha.

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Published in: on February 19, 2011 at 7:43 am  Leave a Comment