"The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them." ~ Maya Angelou
I love this quote – just heard it on Oprah. It was all about women who were betrayed by their husbands. Very interesting show and I agree with the quote 100% although these men were very good at hiding their true selves. Reminds me of a few people and a few mistakes I have made in not trusting my instincts. Of course, being a fair person I try not to let my intuition and initial judgments of people (I give people a few chances at least, always at first believing that I am to harsh a judge) rule how I feel about them but it comes down to this: how many times do you have to be knocked in the head before you realize you cannot trust someone?
Jacquelyn's Space 
I totally agree. Not being able to trust those around you sucks, but I think not being able to trust your husband has got to be the worse ever. I have heard it said that if you dont have trust in a relationship then you dont have anything. And I think their right.